There are a couple of events that I always remember. These events serves as a check for my own actions. Learning...

First event (or series of events) was in secondary 2. It left a scar in me that hardly healed. I had moved on and learned from that episode, but sometimes I would really love to avoid that totally.

Second was in army when Major Low pulled me aside and spoke to me at the staircase. It was a waking up call. Not all things could be done the "right way". Not all things can be treated the same. No single formula can settle everything in this dynamic world.

Third was at OBS during MOE TS(L) days. It was a comment by (ironically) someone who broke the bond even before the camp ended (but that is not the point). That reminded me that we have to watch our words, watch our actions. Everyone is unique. Everyone has their trip wire. We have to be careful with dealing with people.

The fourth even happened today. I was on the offending end and the receiving end that hurt me deeply. I guess there is not such thing as joking, when stress sets in, no matter how brother-brother you are with the other party. I have learnt the lesson. A similar event happened a couple of days ago at work as well. Alright, I get the idea.

However, that doesnt mean that I deserve to be on the receiving end of a direct insult right? Honestly, I am really affected by it. No one has ever told me to "fuck off" other than when being used in army. When I confront someone, I have always tried to do so peacefully. I want to preserve a good relationship. It will take me a while...

Withdrawing... Maybe it would be better if we keep to ourselves at times. Make that most of the times...